How it works
A seven-stage loop, not a to-do list
The seven-stage loop
1. Feeling
Notice and name how you feel about the task. A short emotional check-in, not therapy.
2. Thinking
Look at what is actually going on: the task, its difficulty, what is unclear, what you are waiting on.
3. Decision
Choose on purpose: start now, start small, incubate, postpone to a set time, or ask for help.
4. Action
Take the smallest useful next step, often with a gentle focus session.
5. Review
Afterwards, record honestly what happened — no scoring, no streaks to lose.
6. Learning
The companion notices which choices tended to work for you and in which situations.
7. Observation
Patterns over weeks become insights you can see, question and correct.
A decision engine you can see inside
Urggency
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Consequence of delay
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Emotional friction
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Cognitive complexity
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Creativity requirement
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Energy
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Reversibility
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
External dependencies
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Available time
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Deadline proximity
One of ten independent factors the engine weighs before making any suggestion.
Delay gets a name
Productive incubation
Stepping away after real preparation so a problem can keep working in the background. Time-boxed, with a planned return.
Strategic postponement
Deliberately scheduling a task later for a good reason, with a concrete “when.”
Unproductive avoidance
Delaying to escape uncomfortable feelings, with no plan. Brief relief, quietly growing stress.
Harmful procrastination
Delay causing real damage — missed deadlines, health, money, relationships — where extra support may help.
What it looks like in practice
Whenever you're ready
Start free. No card needed, nothing to lose, and no streaks to break.